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October 28, 2013

Storms and people passing


The big storm passed through, not too bad where I live in London, but Rob Lee our webmaster lives by the sea on the south coast and I was worried for him. The storm ended a tumultous few weeks. 


Several people important to me have passed away. Peter Kay, a friend and chef who designed my kitchen passed away a few weeks ago leaving three daughters. He worked for the footballer Tony Adams charity Sporting Chance for many years. He was a lovely man who had health problems all his life. He passed peacefully. 


Then it was Phoebe, the Irish woman who was one of the first group to come to Erin Pizzey’s Chiswick Women’s Aid – the Richmond house that Keith Moon visited, and that helped kick off Double O, the Who’s charity. Erin came from Ireland with eleven children, and was regarded as something of a saint in Brentford where she lived and died. 


Then David Hooper passed away. He was the caretaker and watchman at Eel Pie Oceanic for many years; he had to stop work when he was hit by a truck on a pedestrian crossing and lost his leg. He managed to end a life of hard drinking in time to be a support to his estranged daughter when she was taken seriously ill ten years ago. 


Yesterday I heard about the passing of Lou Reed. I’d been thinking about him after meeting Jean Michel Jarre last Saturday. He is a friend of Lou and Laurie Anderson. My heart goes out to Laurie whom I met briefly when Lou played with me at Rachel Fuller’s ATTIC JAM at Joe’s Pub in NYC. Lou seemed to have fun that night, and it was wonderful and easy for me to perform with this clear-sighted musician who I had expected to be so difficult. 


Finally, yesterday, I learned than Bhau Kalchuri, the Chairman of the Avatar Meher Baba Trust in India, had passed away on Wednesday. Bhau was a good friend to me, and this week has been a strange one for me, with many swerves and ups and downs, and it didn’t surprise me when I heard he had died. Many Who fans will know I have been a follower of Meher Baba since 1967. Sometimes I am unsure of the sanity of believing that Meher Baba is God in human form, as he claimed. But Anita Viellard, a light-hearted and glamorous Parisian artist I knew very well, told Baba “We don’t mind you thinking you are God, we just love you anyway.” 


So we had our little storm here in the UK. Nothing like Hurricane Sandy, but we know you are thinking about us just as we thought of you on the East Coast. I am very much alive. I hope Rob Lee still has a roof on his house, it is just 25 yards from the beach.

28 Responses to Storms and people passing

Carolyn Marosy says: January 22, 2014 at 2:26 pm

I’m sorry for the loss of so many people that played important roles in your life. I too lost 2 cousins (brothers, separate instances)in 2013, one of whom, John Stroff is THE reason I fell so deeply in love with The Who at a young age. Our love of music and his introduction into so many of the bands I love today was a common bond we shared through our lives. We spent 1982-present attending every WHO/Pete solo show in the NY/NJ area together-the last being Quadrophenia in NJ 2012. At his funeral I gave him a large Union Jack flag in flowers with a ‘Long Live Rock’ banner to see him off…fitting for a Who fan of his stature. Pete, your music provided the backdrop to so many fond memories in our lives. Thank you.

SueB says: January 21, 2014 at 9:57 pm

So sorry to hear of the passing of Rob Lee- it seems you had a premonition…so many losses in the past year for you! Life is so precious and you never seem to take anyone for granted. Grateful for your humanity, and for your courage to share so much of your heart and soul.
You know that there are many people who feel you are, at the very least, touched by the DIVINE. Whatever, we just love you!!
My best to Rachel- we miss her out here!!!


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